(This works when both husband and wife are people of good will, and care about their marriage.)
Every married couple faces pressure from external factors such as job, career move, friends & relatives etc and internal factors as family, own behaviour etc. Many a time to strike a balance, we end up overscheduling your time, energy or money, which builds even more the pressure. Also, sometimes an unexpected illness, unpleasant event or accident threatens or shakes one’s life. Without proper planning, your attempts at a project result in only frustration, or a misunderstanding creates hard feelings or threatens your sense of normalcy.